Mzbel
Ghanaian musician and entrepreneur Mzbel has recently shared her thoughts on a personal topic that has sparked much debate and curiosity. In a candid interview, she revealed the reasons behind her request for a ring from her partner during her pregnancy. Her decision was influenced by societal perceptions and the stigma often attached to unmarried pregnant women.
In 2023, rumors circulated that Mzbel was engaged, particularly after she was spotted wearing a ring on her finger. This sparked speculation about her relationship status, with many believing she was either married or engaged. However, Mzbel clarified that she is neither. Instead, the ring was a strategic choice to help her navigate public scrutiny.
During her interview with Empress Gifty on The U Cook Show, Mzbel expressed her frustration with how society labels unmarried pregnant women. She said, “If I’m seen without a ring while pregnant, people will mock me and call me ‘jantra’ (prostitute). It’s annoying.” The ring served as a shield against judgment, allowing her to maintain a semblance of respectability in the eyes of others.
Mzbel further explained that while the ring gave the impression of marriage, her actual relationship status is more complicated. “To the public, they’ll think I’m married, but when I need to explain, I’ll say I’m engaged,” she noted. This statement highlights the pressures many women face when dealing with societal expectations about relationships and motherhood.
When asked about her views on marriage, Mzbel was straightforward. She acknowledged that marriage holds significance for many, especially those with religious beliefs. Yet, for her, love and personal happiness take precedence. “What makes me feel good and happy is falling in love,” she stated. She emphasized that she can enjoy the same experiences as married couples, such as intimacy and raising children.
Mzbel also touched on her family’s awareness of her relationship. She revealed that her partner has not formally introduced her to his family. “The man hasn’t told my family anything,” she admitted. She explained that her family’s acceptance is often tied to her success, indicating that when one is financially stable, family dynamics can shift.
Interestingly, Mzbel expressed a desire to keep her identity as the mother of her partner’s child discreet from his family. She noted, “I don’t even want them to know I’m a part of their family.” This decision stems from her understanding of their values and her wish to avoid potential conflicts.
